This weekend I realized there is a distinct difference between my friends and I. Everyone is on social media talking about losing weight, eating healthy, getting in shape, and trying to ‘live their best life’ – a phrase that continually baffles me. You can’t actually live your own definition of best life – you must live a version that fits into the happy, healthy, and perpetually smiley face this trend promotes. Admit it, you never hear people use ‘live their best life’ to describe bitter internet trolls sitting on the couch targeting their next victim – yet those trolls probably feel like they are living their best life!
I have just blown your mind, haven’t I?!
While my friends are all becoming better humans, I spent my weekend scrolling through the internet to find where the drive thru cake shops are located. You see, I am living my best life, right here in my living room. I look at cake on the internet, hug my precious Lola, snack on a few cookies, and then take my afternoon nap.
Sometimes I even add a morning nap to the routine if I can.
Now, it’s Monday and I have a very best Monday to live. I plan on taking a morning nap since I stayed up so late the night before. Then I’m going to have a grilled cheese sandwich. I will undoubtedly take 100 pictures of Lola and then cuddle her as I locate my new internet fascination for this week.
Fingers crossed that I can find an all-you-can-eat cookie cafe near my house.
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It isn’t all you can eat but if ever you find yourself in NZ, particularly Queenstown there is a place called “Cookie Time” and they have milk “on tap” (think beer taps) and you can buy all sorts of decadent cookies and have them either warmed up (to melt the chocolate or other delicious fillings) or cold. You can also have the milk warm if that’s your thing. It was awesome in snow season although this have more to do the with novelty that was milk, cookies and snow to me as an Australian. But still, eating cookies = living the best life I agree 100%
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I live on the wrong continent! That sounds like a cookie paradise!
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It is. It is one of my favourite places in the world
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I love this, we’ve got to do what makes us happy, not what everyone else sees as “the best life”. #globalblogging
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Exactly!
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Popping back for #dreamteam
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You only live once is what I say! #Globalblogging
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Definitely must make the most of our lives, whatever you decide that is!
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Ummm… Drive thru cake shops? Yes please. That is an amazing life! #globalblogging
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I know! And none exist that I can find. It’s a market that should be explored.
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We should all eat cake, and plenty of it, any way we can. Here’s to cake! And cookies and all things sugar and nice! Well done Heather #GlobalBlogging
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Thank you!
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A drive-thru cake shop sounds like living your “best life” to me! Lol #globalblogging
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It really is!
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You are living my best life. Sign me up for all the naps and cake! #dreamteam
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Yay!!! We have blankets!
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To each their own! I say do whatever makes you happy – if that’s running marathons, great. If that’s eating cake in bed – also great. Probably better. #dreamteam
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I agree wholeheartedly!! Whatever makes us happy, as long as it’s legal!
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There’s so much pressure on doing certain things but I agree with you, we all have our own best way and I don’t think there’s anything better than endulging In cake! #DreamTeam
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I have a hard time conforming, I’ve always done what felt right for me and cake is definitely delicious!
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I can’t even listen to the people on feb fast or off sugar. I literally just glaze over. #Dreamteam
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Me too, that’s actually what prompted me to write this post – people telling me I had to join in because I would feel so great if I did something good for my body. I feel great now, why do I have to join the cult?!
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#blessed 😒 #dreamteam
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I hate that I feel guilty every time I make or eat a cake because there is a little sugar in it or because it’s not vegan. I love the sound of your Monday! #dreamteam
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Join me in the rebellion!!
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This is my kind of life! Finding the best cakes and sugar rushes around town! I say, if it’s pleasure, it’s guiltfree! #DreamTeam
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It’s a great life!
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I sooo agree! live the way you want to live! Im off for a nap…..#dreamteam
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Naps are the best!
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Life is too short! I would rather be average and happy then thin and cranky! #dreamteam
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I agree!!
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I don’t like my pre-baby body – but I’ve accepted it now. Four years after the birth of my youngest I’ve decided to just be happy! Fab post #DreamTeam
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Happy really is the best!
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Live your best life really does seem to be a lot of effort 😉 Mine would involve TV re-runs of Miss Marple, hot chocolate/ wine, and a good book or magazine. No effort whatsoever! #DreamTeam
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That sounds fantastic!
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I love your outlook on life, i think you’ve got it pretty much spot on!! #Dreamteam
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Thank you!
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Such a great outlook on things. Thanks for sharing. Love it. #DreamTeam
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What a great outlook on everything. Sounds like a winner. #DreamTeam
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I’m not living my best life right now as i’m 29 weeks pregnant, with twins and suffering pretty much every issue in pregnancy known to man. HOWEVER, Last week I ate a whole tub of ice cream to myself, I regularly eat takeaways as I have no energy to cook and I ate a peanut butter and jelly sandwich last week which I’m planning to recreate when I have the energy again!
Life is what you makes YOU happy, sod the risks of heartattacks and people wanting a healthier lifestyle hahahah! #dreamteam & #globalblogging
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Exactly! Make yourself happy, eat another tub of ice cream and know that your children will always remember that their mom was a happy person. No one remembers if their mother was skinny, they remember if their mother was happy.
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And I do hope that you feel better once the twins have arrived! I can’t imagine how uncomfortable you feel right now.
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I don’t believe anyone is living there best life without cake. It’s just not possible. #DreamTeam
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I agree!
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I always want to tell people banging on about living their best life is that as this is it, they are living their best life right now so shouldn’t they just be getting on with it?! I suspect I have no future as a motivational speaker
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You just read the entirety of my motivational speech. You and I should just go get a piece of cake together and leave the rest of the people to try to figure out where else gluten might be hiding.
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Grilled cheese sandwich……yum! #dreamteam
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Grilled cheese has never disappointed me in life.
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oh a nap! How blissful! I just love a nap whether it is preceeded by cookies or not 😉 #dreamteam
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Naps make life perfect!
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“Your best life” – if you aren’t living it now, get on it! I’m living my best life and it consists of being mega busy, working outside the home, parenting 2 daughters, never being at home, and eating too much pizza. But it’s a great life. It makes me sad to think others aren’t living their “best life” or at least don’t feel like it.
~Jess
#GlobalBlogging
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Your life sounds amazing! I love pizza 🍕, it should be it’s own food group!
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Love This! It’s so true! I think I need to add a nap in too… #DreamTeam
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Oh your post made me giggle! Did you find the all-you-can-eat cookie cafe? I wish I could take a nap today, but I have another hospital appointment today. #Dreamteam
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No cookie cafe, I am so disappointed! I hope you’re feeling better.
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An all you can eat cookie cafe sounds immense! All we can do is try and live our own best life, whatever that looks like! #DreamTeam
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Phew!!! Heather I was scared to click on this post for a second there…..”clean living ” makes me want to cry . My best life is most certainly made of naps and snacks !! #globalblogging
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I used a bit of click bait to draw in the healthy people – now they see there’s another way to live their best life!
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Ha ha that is genius!!!!
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Another visit to a great post, this time borne on the wings of the #DreamTeam Tooth Fairy!!
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I am now incredibly disappointed that there are no cookies or cakes in our house! Cookies make for living the best life!
#dreamteam
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That does sound horrible!
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Sounds like a ‘best life’ to me! I don’t know of any all-you-can-eat cookie cafes, but I have heard an enchanting tale of drive-thru Krispy Kreme! That would be the dream.
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We have a drive through Krispy Kreme – luckily it is far enough away from me that I don’t go there daily.
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Absolutely love this. My mummy is living the best life she possibly can and that’s not feeling guilty over food, image or lifestyle! She’s so much happier for it! #GlobalBlogging x
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That is fabulous news!!
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Haha this is just what I think of that phrase – it’s just so weird when someone says it but mean they’re living the best life they think someone else will think is their best life. It’s such nonsense. My best life is me, sitting right where I am – fingers tapping the keyboard while I drink a hot coffee! 😉
#DreamTeam
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Your life sounds fabulous!!!
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I would love this life too! A drive through cookie cafe sounds great, almost obvious. Is there any out there I wonder. #dreamteam
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I haven’t found one yet!
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Very true. Living your best life is defined by what actually makes that individual happy. #dreamteam
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Here’s to you! We are individuals. We like different things. We should celebrate our individuality and ensure we are remembered as real people not some social media version of perfection #DreamTeam
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Cheers to that!!!
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I would give anything for an afternoon nap. You are truly living the best life.#globalblogging
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Back from #globalblogging
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Back from #dreamteam
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Morning naps + drive through cake shops would definitely be on my list of ways to live your best life!! 😁 #dreamteam
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I have to admit that this does sound like a pretty awesome Monday to me! I’m sold! #dreamteam
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I want to live your best life Heather. It sounds a lot like my best life to me. I’m cheersing you with cookies. 😘 x #DreamTeam
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I have space on my couch!
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I’m there! 🍰💜
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I try to take an afternoon nap every day. Science has proven that a even just a half hour nap can make a person more productive and focused throughout the rest of their day. And that to me, sounds like a happy and healthy way to go. You’re already ahead of everyone else my friend:) #globalblogging
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Well that sounds amazing!!! Science backing up my naptime makes me feel vindicated to all those people who said I’m ridiculous.
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Oh yeah, In fact, supposedly companies in Japan actually encourage their employees to take a 30 minute nap during the work day. I don’t know if it’s all companies but apparently its a thing. Now if only the U.S. could get in on this;) Coming back again from #DreamTeam
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The US needs to get it together!
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Oooh I do like the sound of a cake drive through. I’ve recently found a new favourite. A muffin with a fondant fancy mixture! #globalblogging
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Oh, that sounds yummy!
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It certainly has unfortunately an overdose on sugar leads me to a vile headache though #DreamTeam
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Yes to that. Are there actually drive through cake places? If so, please do come to London! I ‘m liking the sound of these very much. Cake and naps… sounds like my idea of living well. *If only! #DreamTeam xxx
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I haven’t found a drive thru cake shop… yet. I hold out hope!
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Absobladylutely – it’s up to us to define what we want out of life. This is a similar train of thought to the post I wrote a while ago about ‘having it all’ – and who is it exactly that is defining what ‘having it all actually means? It should be us ourselves. Not anyone else.
#globalblogging
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Love your attitude! I need more naps in my life. And more grilled cheese x #GlobalBlogging
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Both are awesome!!
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Ha ha. Love it! Yes completely agree. Live your life how you want to!
#AnythingGoes
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I basically want everything you just described – I think our best lives are pretty much identical!xx #dreamteam
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A woman after my own heart!!!
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