Dear Lola,
I work in a fairly small office setting with five other people. One of my coworkers has taken to badgering the rest of us about bringing lunches that don’t require a microwave, in order to avoid unpleasant smells. We have all been considerate, no one is microwaving a curry or something with a strong odor, but she will complain about everything. Purchasing a hot lunch and eating in the office produces a similar complaint. Yesterday I microwaved plain rice and she commented it smelled, and then asked me to refrain from bringing it again.
We’ve tried to be accommodating and most of us bring cold lunches a few times each week, but lately we’ve hit a wall. This coworker is now leaving notes on people’s desks, the microwave, the refrigerator, and has even sent out emails. She seems to think that since we accommodate her most of the week, that we somehow owe it to her to never bring a hot lunch into the office again. What should we do?!
Sincerely,
Microwave Manager Not Needed
Dear Microwave Manager Not Needed,
I was prepared from a quick scan of your issue, to side with your coworker. Many articles have been published across the globe listing foods that should never be brought to the office because they are offensive to quite a large part of the population. However, it seems like you are all being completely reasonable in your attempts to accommodate your office mate.
Your coworker is evidently part bloodhound.
Trained to sniff out even the smallest of odors amongst a sea of other odors, the bloodhound can track a fart blowing in the wind for 72 miles. They can smell a single plankton being digested inside the intestinal system of a whale residing deep under the surface of the ocean.
Nothing else on Earth is capable of smelling plain white rice.
This is where normal advice columns would recommend that you contact Human Resources for an amicable solution. The columnist might also recommend you attempt to pack a cold lunch since it bothers you less than the odors do your coworker. You may even be told a trip to the actual office manager could be useful. Lucky for you, I am not that type of advice column.
It’s time to wage a war – a cold, stinky war.
Start packing cold lunches, but make sure to get the entire office is in on the game. On Monday, all five of you will eat a salad with hard-boiled eggs and stinky blue cheese dressing. Tuesday can be a cold bruschetta with a side of canned sardines. Wednesday is definitely a tuna sandwich day. Five of you eating those will scar the nasal passages of anyone within a one mile radius. Thursday shall be a tasty offering of garlic hummus and an array of cold veggies. If your coworker hasn’t quit her job by Friday, it’s time to release the big dog – Kimchi. Fermented veggies will test even the toughest of nasal systems.
Just remember this for when your office is called in for the meeting with management – you were nice and brought a cold lunch as requested.
♥Lola♥
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You could always move her desk outside the building and she will never smell a thing. The ultimatum is: you are in or you are out; your choice.
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That’s a very good suggestion! Though Human Resources might force them to allow her back in…
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Ask them to move iutside too. You might have guessed I think HR people are an abomination.
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That’s a great idea!
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just got a minute to catch up and Lola is dead on with the war. You might even bring in some limburger cheese and crackers (definitely don’t have to eat the cheese). BTW take all the odor eating cans/jars etc from the office for when you all need to use the bathroom. Moopey
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Is there a way of cleaning the air near the microwave? I think eating a warm meal is important in the winter months – plenty of time for management to save up for an air purifier – winner winner curry chicken dinner xx
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I think the one co-worker is the problem and despite their accommodations, she is not happy. They should just bring what they want to eat!
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Bring some fruit in. Something like Durian … (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Durian). When she complains point out that you’ve done exactly what she asked …
TBH, in our place we moan a bit about lunch smells but a person’s got to eat so it may be time for someone senior to point out to her that while her workmates are doing their best to be considerate, she can’t actually tell them what they can and can’t bring to work. Unless she owns the company. In which case, I recommend job hunting!
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I was going to recommend durian but I thought that might get them all fired. I think they are at the point where the lady either has to let it go, or she needs to find a new job. You can’t control everyone around you and her co-workers have tried to accommodate her, by all accounts.
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We had a woman in our office who used to eat tuna out of the tin at her desk. None of us ever complained about it. #AnythingGoes
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You are wonderful coworkers! Tuna is a trial for even those of us who love it.
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I think you have a roster – 2 days a week you all eat cold/out and 3 days a week she eats out and you all microwave whatever you want. #Globalblogging
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That’s not a bad solution! I do wonder how reasonable this lady is though.
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Just because I’m a bitch, I would bring something that really stinks even at room temperature (doesn’t need refrigeration or nuking) just to annoy her.
I am thinking durians too! You all would have to evacuate the office ‘cos durians smell like a gas leak! LOL! An interesting article to share – http://www.abc.net.au/news/rural/2014-04-23/durian-causes-hospital-evacuation/5406390
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Durians are so stinky! I smelled one once in an outdoor market and I almost passed out. Yikes!
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Have you got a cafeteria? #GlobablBlogging
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The original writer did not indicate a cafeteria. One could only imagine how many complaints she would lodge over that being in the building!
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Move her desk into it!
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Hahahahaha! That’s the perfect revenge!
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I think something with seafood – maybe shrimp scampi with a lot of garlic – would be a good thing to bring for lunch!
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I love scampi with tons of garlic. They should definitely bring that in to the office!
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You should be able to eat what you want when you want – and lunch is such an important meal. It’s a pick me up at work and helps my dau go faster if I enjoy what I’m eating! #GlobalBlogging
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What is really frustrating is that the letter writer said the entire office has tried to work with the person. They’ve gone out of their way to help accommodate and the complaints don’t stop. At this point, I say eat whatever you want.
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Wondering if this co-worker is a Highly Sensitive Person. Maybe get a good book on HSP living and gift it to her. She might not even know there is such a thing.
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That’s a great idea! I’ll reach out to the letter writer and recommend that.
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I did find it odd that if she has such trouble with lunchtime, why she wouldn’t choose to leave during lunch each day and avoid the most potent time of smells.
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Stop using the microwave but start making Pot Noodles instead. They really whiff! Alternatively find something to moan about to this colleague in exchange. What does she do that’s annoying? Perhaps try to bargain some kind of exchange with her!
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Forgot to add #GlobalBlogging
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A cold stinky war! Brilliant! #globalblogging
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Everyone moans about this at work too, but, during the winter you have to have lot lunches, and tasty lunches always have a smell to them! #globalblogging
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Exactly! And they tried to accommodate and it had no effect.
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Seriously love this post WAY more than I should!
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A tale of revenge always puts a slight smile on the face 😈
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I haven’t smelled kimchi and don’t think I’d want to if that’s the final assault weapon, Camembert could be added to the list maybe …
There is always the option of being super nice and offering half your food etc and seeing if that changes the balance #GlobalBlogging
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I don’t think I could ever come to offer food to someone who is complaining about the smell of it. My fat kid self would cry inside.
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I’d definitely wage a cold food war, sardine and tuna salad for the win! #globalblogging
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It seems as if the microwave police is in every office #globalblogging
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Ugh. I never had this issue when I worked in daycare – then again, we dealt with a lot worse smells!
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Oh this dreaded topic is so real, so very real! Thank you, Lola for handling head on! I’ll walk during lunch today! #globalblogging xoxo
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Enjoy the wonderful weather!
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My personal favourite is a tuna salad. That cold meal smells so delicious it’s the only thing I eat that my kids never want to eat!
#globalblogging
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I LOVE tuna salad! Just had it yesterday.
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