Dear Lola,
I recently moved from the US to the UK and am perplexed by clothing. Women’s clothing sizes are vastly different to what I am used to. I thought it was just another thing that my husband and I would have to adapt to, but that’s not the case at all! Men’s clothing is the same size in both countries so my husband has had no issues. Why aren’t women’s sizes the same in both countries?
Sincerely,
Pajama Princess
Dear Pajama Princess,
I love the name you gave yourself when writing in – usually I have to come up with something witty on my own. I am assuming you came up with the moniker because you are currently reduced to wearing pajamas at all times, as they are the only thing in the world that currently make sense. You probably also reasoned that this question would demand much research since I am not in the habit of having to buy my own clothing – leaving me ignorant of the sizing system in my own country, let alone a foreign country. Thank you for your kindness, and I am happy to report that I do indeed have an answer for you!
The Man is to blame.
Now, I haven’t figured out which man is actually to blame, but my Mommybeast always blames The Man when life is pushing her around. She also blames cake for some of life’s ills, but only when cake goes missing from the kitchen counter.
Since The Man is so elusive, I could not personally question him about the sizing issue. I therefore must theorize that The Man knows women would be unstoppable in the world if they no longer had to spend so much mental energy figuring out how to put on clothes. The more confounding the sizing system becomes, the less time women have to spend at work each day preparing to take over the world.
Now, I hate to leave my readers on a sour note so I’ve gone searching for the silver lining in this situation. It is more rust colored than silver, but it was the very best I could do with the subject matter.
We can take down The Man even while wearing our pajamas.
Now, find some of those mini cakes and sandwiches the British are known for and enjoy a bit of Netflix while you snack – pajamas were made for this moment!
♥Lola♥
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Oh my goodness this is gold. I had no idea about the sizing challenges with UK & US. I am from Australia… I wonder if our sizes are same or different to the US or UK… would Lola have any insight? #DreamTeam
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During her research, Lola discovered most UK and Australian sizing is at most only one size off.
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This post made me smile and makes me want to go back to the States for another holiday and to shop. I personally find it easier to shop out there especially for jeans #dreamteam
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We do love denim and seem to have more of it than anyone else!
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None of the UK shops use the same sizing anyway. No matter what the labels say! #dreamteam
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That’s difficult! While there are a few companies here that are noted for using their own weird sizing system, I can almost always buy the same size in any brand.
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What a fabulous idea, I love your style, very funny too! #Dreamteam
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Thank you so much!
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This made me smile. In the UK you can buy one size in one shop then go to another shop and pick up that same size and it won’t fit! It’s infuriating. I can only imagine how frustrating it is trying to work out the differences when you move to a new country.
#DreamTeam
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I know I couldn’t do it. Plus we Americans end up MUCH fatter on the UK scale 😟
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I found this out when I was in Australia on holiday and bought a few clothing items there. Sizes are completely different to that in South Africa. I ended up having to buy 2 sizes bigger than what I usually wear.#Dreamteam
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It would be amazing if we could all agree on a sizing system, but even then I don’t think it would benefit the US because we are not on the measurement system the rest of the world uses. I always joke that the US needs to just go on the metric system but then I look at the metric system and I can’t figure out what is what – that’s probably why we haven’t done it yet!
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This is one of the reasons I hate shopping. Men also make it easier for themselves just having S/M/L etc – that makes way more sense than 8/10/12 etc. #dreamteam
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Yeah, I always wondered why we would come up with the number system but then every company and country uses their own different numbers. S/M/L is so efficient!
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I find shopping anywhere aggravating these days! Here in the UK one shop will sell a size 12 that fits me perfectly but a size 12 from the shop next door will be far too big! So annoying #DreamTeam
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It is! I think this is why all of the future movies show everyone wearing a matching outfit. All made by the same company, all you have to do is figure out what size fits you and that’s the only thing you order for the rest of your life.
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Ah the varying sizes in the UK drives me crazy at the best of times, and that’s without swapping from US to UK! #dreamteam
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I feel bad for my fellow American who is currently in the UK living in pajamas. I mean, living in pajamas is pretty awesome, but not when you don’t want to!
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As a man I particularly do not understand why women’s clothes don’t simply list the sizes based on the measurements. Most men’s clothes does this to some extent and it makes it easy, understand roughly your waist measurement in inches or cm as well are you collar sie and you’re 80% good to go. I do not envy women needing to navigate that minefield. #DreamTeam
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It is baffling! I went with Hubster to buy him jeans and we were done in 10 minutes. 10 minutes! I wanted to punch him in the face. Not that it’s his fault, but it takes me at least three hours to try on all the different styles of jeans to figure out what makes me look less like a muffin and more like a croissant. No one wants to be a muffin!
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Oh don’t get me started on UK clothes sizes!!! One shop has its own clothes sizing compared to another shop and it’s a friggin’ nightmare! I hate clothes shopping! #dreamteam
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Some of the American companies are really ridiculous when it comes to sizing, but you can usually get within a size. my American friend who wrote in said the UK system blew her mind because it was every store she went to having completely different sizes from the one before it.
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I’ve been three different sizes in the same shop! It’s ridiculous. I now just buy what fits and don’t take any notice of what size it deems me to be! #DreamTeam
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I’ve never really cared what size I was, because I find cookies too delicious to give up. And all the cake in the world needs to be eaten. However, if it takes me more than a few minutes to find the first pair of fitting jeans, I just want to go home and live pantless.
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I can’t even figure out sizing in one country, let alone two!
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Yeah, I think she should just continue to order her clothing from the US. The shipping costs probably make that ridiculous and when you live in a new country you kind of want to do what they’re doing.
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It IS so annoying isn’t it! Then there’s vanity sizing which basically means they make the clothes bigger, out the same size in it all in the name of making you feel better about yourself! I know that I’m getting fatter from too much cake….clothes don’t need to tell me! Ahhhhhh #dreamteam
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Vanity sizing, I will never get why that makes people feel better. To me, it just makes the old size 10 a size 6 now. But before you know it, if you’re not a negative 6 then you’re just a fatty. I had a friend who bought a triple zero pair of jeans and I didn’t even know what to say to her. What does triple zero mean??? She said she used to be considered a size 4.
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Exactly! Triple 0? Wow…that’s bonkers 🤪
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Does that mean when they turn sideways they just disappear in front of your eyes?! It’s baffling.
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Maybe!
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Yes, no such thing as don’t start the revolution , I’m in my pyjamas! — seize the moment!! (Just make sure you have a good warm dressing-gown) #DreamTeam
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This will be the first revolution fought in pajamas. It will be infamous.
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ON the money yet again Lola. *sticks up two fingers to ‘the man’
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Yeah!
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As a UK born pyjama princess I actually love it when an item of clothing has a US sizing label, as the number is around 4 lower than the UK equivalent! I literally lose two dress sizes instantly! Thus justifying extra tiny sandwiches and cakes – winning at life! 😂 xx #DreamTeam
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Four sizes!!!!! My friend just became four sizes fatter overnight, no wonder she’s having a hard time over there – she needs to eat more mini cakes and just enjoy it.
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It is so annoying – wish sizes were the same everywhere! #dreamteam
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It would make life easier. I also think companies don’t realize how much more money they could make if people knew what sizes to order. I know I would buy a lot more clothing, but I hate wasting my time trying on clothes for hours so I usually stick with two pairs of jeans and a handful of T-shirts and the rest never gets bought.
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And even if the size says it’s is the same, it’s different from shop to shop. The Man keeping you on your toes 😉 #dreamteam
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He’s such a bastard!
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But when we go to the US, it works to our advantage as we are suddenly two sizes smaller. 🙂
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You guys are skinnier and your pound is worth more than our dollar. 😲
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I could read your posts all day long (if I had the time, imagine that?!) Love this one and yes I agree, why does it need to be different? Just to confuse us further? Hope you get the “hang” of the sizes soon x #dreamteam
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Thank you for reading! I did message my friend to tell her to find a UK lady and ask her to go shopping. Maybe having some moral support there will help her.
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I don’t bother too much about sizing as it is all so confusing. It is just a case of if it fits I will buy it. It does make internet shopping a ball ache though! Great post
#dreamteam
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haha, I say just stick to PJ’s they are the best, a high tea at the Castle whilst wearing my PJ’s and tiara! Want to join me Lola? #dreamteamlinky
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That sounds heavenly and Lola said she’s in!
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I blame the man for everything #dreamteam
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LOVE when I shop in the US and can pretend I am a size 8! #dreamteam
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This is it!!! So funny. And so true!!! #dreamteam
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It’s all man’s fault! Sizes are silly numbers made up by people that really have no meaning other than the attachment to a pattern for a specific company. I say enjoy your pajamas and tea while you enjoy the view of your new home! Then go out for a day and take 4 different sizes of the same piece into a dressing room and figure out your new shopping experience. Best of luck, Pajama Princess!
#dreamteam
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Very wise advice and I love it!!!
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It will take a bit of getting used to, but some companies offer comparison guides.
#dreamteam
Katelynn, hampersandhiccups.com
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Oh, I’ll tell her that! Maybe it will help her to feel less lost in new stores.
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Haha good advice Lola, blame the Man. Words to live by. I’m from Europe. Another set of different sizes for all clothing. #dreamteam
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That’s brilliant Lola. And not only are they different to the US sizes, but in general, each shops size for a particular ‘size’ is different too. It’s all very confusing and the only way to win is to shop at one shop and become a walking advert I find. 🙂 Thanks for being a fab host over on the #Dreamteam xxx
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Walking advert, I love it! At least you won’t die in a shop trying on the 3,000th pair of pants!
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I don’t know about the sizes being different to the US, but they’re different in every flipping shop! #DreamTeam
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That is so frustrating!
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The complexity of womens clothing could only be a mans fault, women would have that shit standardised im a week. #dreamteam
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A week maximum!
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And the sizes would be called fabulous, gorgeous, beautiful and wow. No more numbers.
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I really could ditch the clothing size and snug in some oversized pyjamas right now!!! This wintery snow in London has be dreaming of my bed right now and maybe a holiday over in the states! #DreamTeam
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I have no snow here, it’s practically tropical compared to the winter beating you guys are taking!
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I love this, and yes!! It’s crazy that there aren’t standard sizes universally, I actually change my dress size from one shop to the next! #rdreamteam
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Ah sizing does my head in. Maybe that’s why some remove the labels #DreamTeam
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We totally agree with this Lola! It is totally a conspiracy by The Man! We should all dress in PJs and men’s t-shirts! #DreamTeam
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Sounds like a very comfy protest! We’re in!
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Forget different sizing in different countries – what really gets me is different sizing for different brands in the SAME country!!!
#DreamTeam
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This is what I hate the most! My husband went abroad for work and bought me a few clothes, I’m a size 12-14 in the U.K. and he bought me XXXL and I’m not even kidding you! And it was the same as a size 12! Didn’t make me feel good and gave him a good laugh! #DreamTeam
Soffy // themumaffairs.blogspot.com
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That is awful! I would have no hope of finding clothes there!
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I can’t even cope with all the different sizes in this country! I swear it changes every time I shop somewhere new! #dreamteam
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Clothing sizes are crazy and it even varies from shop to shop, gggrrrrr! #dreamteam
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I concur dear Lola. If men had to focus on as many things as women do, then there would be far less wars in this world! I theorise that men make up stuff like this just to keep us occupied as they know we would take over their world completely!
#dreamteam
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They definitely are conspiring against us!
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This sounds fair enough and seems to cover all bases as far as answers are concerned. I can’t help pyjama princess with this dilemma, either! #DreamTeam
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What would we do without Lola!!!(ps I’ve lived in the UK all my life and still struggle with sizes !!) #dreamteam
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I think we should adopt a world uniform and call it quits with all this unnecessary trying on!
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The size system in this country still confounds me, let alone a different one in another country. These days I never seems to know what size I am because every store and every brand has their own sizing system. It’s so frustrating but I love Lola’s answer! If I could get away with wearing Pajamas all day, every day, I definitely would:) #anythinggoes
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Maybe we bloggers should all wear pajamas on the same day and then we will look normal and everyone else will look weird.
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Hahaha yeah that would be awesome!!😝😝
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Lola’s wisdom and acumen of all things puzzling continue to amaze me. We can take over the world in our pj’s. Why the hell not? Thank you, LOLA! xoxo #dreamteam xo
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I love US sizing as I am a 10 or an 8. i know this is rubbish as I am still the same size I’ve always been but that label always makes me smile. Particularly when it’s on jeans.
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We do love our vanity sizing here!
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Lola has it spot on, pyjamas or pajamas are the only way women can take over the world, that’s why you see them in the school playground…or it could be because they plan on going back to bed once the kids are dropped off. In which case, they are never going to take over the world only dream of it.
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Dreaming of it still feels pretty nice I bet!
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Pyjamas are cool and that’s about the size of it! #LGRTStumble
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Hello again Heather and Lola ‚— this time from #BigPinkLink
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HI!!!
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